Don't Force

I know everyone have their right to do what they want. I already try to cheer you up but its failed. I know what you feel, I try to understand you, but you always didn't aware of it. I know you have right to do that, but please understand to me.

I also have my limits, please understand others people feeling. Please don't dare me, please don't make me reach my limit. Please, please and please. I hope you will understand. But, if you dare to make it, I warned you because if it happen, please don't blame to me.

When you start to make angry, I will start to hate you. When I hate you, I will always hate you. When I'm always hate you, I will treat you as my enemy. When you become my enemy, you actually fight with me. When you try to fight with me, its settle, it is my win.

Please don't blame to me if it will hurts you. I have warned you, I have remind you. BUT you always take it easy. You always take it as nothing important to you. I know everyone have their right to do what they want. This is natural but please, please don't force me.

White Matter vs. Gray Matter

Men and Women possess two different types of brains, designed equally for intelligent behavior. Men have approximately 6.5 times as much gray matter as women. Women have almost 10 times as much white matter that men do. Information-processing centers are located in gray matter. The connections or networks among these processing centers are composed of white matter. These differences explain why men tend to excel in tasks involving gray matter local processing - like mathematics - while women excel at integrated and assimilating information from gray matter regions, required for language skills, because of their abundance of connecting white matter.

This physical difference in our brain composition helps explain why we communicate so differently. A woman's brain is busy connecting everything. The more she cares about something, the more she connects it to other things going around in her brain.

For example, when she sees a movie or visits a friend, she may have a lot to say about it. meanwhile a guy may have nothing to say unless the movie happens to hit a particular area of interest. She assumes that he does not want to talk about the movie, but he actually has little to say. With this new insight, she can be assured that he is interested in hearing what she has to say, even though he has little to offer in return. When a women gives up expecting her partner to talk more, not only does he appreciate her willingness to talk, but gradually begins to share more

When men have little to say, women often take it
personally, as if he doesn't want to share.

This same idea applies to asking a man about his day or trip he has taken. When he has little to say, he is not intentionally hiding what happened; he just doesn't think much about it, and as a consequence he doesn't remember much. She looks forward to explaining how everything connects. The process of communicating actually helps her reduce stress, while it has little benefit for him.

Study Week 12-16 April 2010

Study week almost end and Final Exam will coming soon. Many things I have done this whole week. The first things is I went to library to study since morning till night. This is never I have done before. It is because I can't even study or read a book while in my room. So I choice to go to the library and study at there.

12th April 2010, Monday
I went out from my room around 9am because I want to go to upgrade my laptop so I had to go to Cahaya Gemilang first to for help from my senior. Then suddenly I received massage from Josephine asked for breakfast. Very surprised because I thought she still in Malacca. So I went to breakfast with her. After that I went to library for study. Very surprised when I reached Library II. There were so many people and unlucky the aircond was break down. Very hot until my body sweat. But afer 15 minutes, the aircond already ok. That was my first thing happen in my 1st day in study week. Many things happen that I unexpected. But in that day, I can finish 2 chapters for Organizational Behaviour subject and a chapter from Business Law. Very tired and satisfied.

13th April 2010, Tuesday
There were nothing much happen today. But this time Florence came to library. Yesterday she said want go lunch together but she unpurposely she woke up late. But today she came library for study. At night, Loke, Vinye and me went dinner to Hidden Recipe. Nothing special happen that day.

14th April 2010, Wednesday
Today I went to Gym for relaxing. Went to the Gym Club at 9.30 till 11.30am. Very tired because I had done for train my shoulder. After lunch, I went to library to continue study. Today I just study Business Law only. just a chapters. But I think I make a good choice because the chapter that I studied is the hardest. So it take half days to finish it. Today I went dinner at KFC with Xiao Bai, Florence, Vinye, Loke, Amelia, Yi Long and Loke's roomate. Very happy because long time didn't eat KFC.

15th April 2010, Thursday
Study as usual but today best part is went to Mc Donald with Josephine and Florence. We went to Mc Donald because Josephine said that new McD already open and Florence also want to go there, because yesterday she went to McD, the McD still closed for renovation. There were many people in McD. We had to wait to search a table before we order the food. Very unexpected there were so many until not enough place. Today Florence had told me a story that she very shy. She had send wrong massage and the person who received the massage also was the person she blame. So pity to her, she already no mood to study. But after meet the lecturer, she feel ok already. At night, Florence, senior and I went dinner at Sg Dua. Very funny when think back.

16th April 2010, Friday
Here is the last day for study week. Hope I can cover all chapter for the Final Exam. I'm very scared because this semester I have to score high GPA to increase my CGPA above 3.50. Very hard to make it but still I will work hard. Anyway today many people went back early, I left alone in the library.

Nasi Lemak in Tekun is Interesting

All people don't know that Desasiswa Tekun has a precious treasure. The precious treasure that mention earlier is Nasi Lemak. Nasi Lemak in Tekun is the best Nasi Lemak that I had ever taste in my life. The rice is very nice, the coconut milk that mixed with the rice is optimum. Its make the rice taste very delicious. Furthermore, the special things in Nasi Lemak Tekun is their 'sambal'. The 'sambal' is not too spicy but a bit sweet. It's make the Nasi Lemak taste very nice. Plus the price is quite cheap, about RM2.00 per set ( Nasi Lemak + Sambal + Fried Egg + a little slice of cucumbers) . So, what are you waiting for? Try it yourself. It available in Desasiswa Tekun USM. Open everyday from 7am till 11am. Very good experience if you are the food hunter.

~Nasi Lemak + Sambal + Fried Egg + Cucumber~

~Very nice just RM 2.00++~

Badminton is Interesting

Thats no words accept fun when talking about badminton.Thursday, 1st April 2010, I'm went to play badminton with friends at USM badminton court. Xiao Bai, Wei Chuan, Alan CMJ, Florence, Lay C and I were play together in a good match.

Playing with them make me feel like we all increase our relationship as a good friends and course-mates. Todays I had fight with Alan. Not bad his performers, quite challenging play with him and his friends. But it is a good match. I think I had lack of training when play with them. I like a child play with professional players.

Next, I had play with Lay C, interesting and good match. Lay C also not bad in badminton. I think if she get enough training she can be a professional player. Florence also good, she's tall and it is very good for playing badminton. Btw, we had a match for mixed doubles. I'm pair with Florence versus Lay C pair with Xiao Bai. Very good match and I enjoy play with them. Play with laugh and relax make me relax my mind from busy life as accounting major.

Huh, today is very tiring day. After play badminton 2 hours, we all very tired. Really hope that can play again with them.

School of Management Prom Night 2010

~ SOM Prom Night 2010~

On 27th of March 2010, School of Management had organize Prom Night in Eastin Hotel especially to final year. There were a lot of gorgeous students especially from Accounting 1st Year.

~Prom Night Golden Ticket~

~The place is so nice~

~USM Leng Zai~

from left : Hock Yam, Shang Zu, Wei Chuan, Beng Shern, Hanif, Alan, Lewis, Kean Hon, Oii Derek, Ka Vun, Tiong Liang, Chin Kang

~USM Accounting Leng Lui~

~From Left : Vinye, Tsu Ting, Josephine, Hui Ling, Liu Yan, Yan Fang, Su Lynn, Wyni~

~USM Leng Zai~

~From Left : Hanif, Ka Vun, Oii Derek, Chuan Yew, Wei Chuan~

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